FAQ

Can I bring someone with me to the shoot?

Yes—with some important caveats. You’re welcome to bring someone if they’ll be supportive, positive, and contribute to a relaxed and creative atmosphere. For example, a friend who keeps the vibes upbeat or someone participating in the shoot is more than welcome.

However, I kindly ask that you do not bring anyone who might create stress or distractions—this includes people who try to control the shoot(that was not pre-arranged), children who aren’t being photographed, or anyone likely to cause tension. The goal is to make this a fun, focused, and empowering experience for you.

If you’re unsure, just ask—I’m happy to talk it through beforehand.

What should I wear?

Wear something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and authentically you. Solid colors tend to photograph beautifully, and layered textures (like knits, denim, or linen) can add visual interest. Avoid bold logos or overly busy patterns unless they’re an intentional part of your style. Feel free to bring multiple outfit options—we’ll pick together based on the look and mood you want to create.

For Boudoir Sessions:
Choose pieces that make you feel powerful and beautiful. This could be lingerie, a favorite oversized sweater, a sheer robe, a simple tank top, jeans, or even nothing at all - whatever helps you tap into your confidence. Don’t feel pressured to wear anything too revealing unless that’s your style. Bring a few options and we’ll build the vibe together. Accessories, such as jewelry, thigh-highs, or heels, can also enhance the look.

Pro tip: Choose outfits in colors that complement your skin tone, and steer clear of anything too tight or uncomfortable—you should feel amazing in whatever you wear.

Do I need to do my own hair and makeup?

Yes—for now, hair and makeup are your responsibility. Keep in mind that I typically use flash photography, which can wash out lighter makeup, so it’s best to be a bit heavy-handed with your application. Think of it like stage makeup—slightly bolder than usual will read best on camera. If you need help deciding what works well, I’m happy to offer guidance!

Why are your prices so much lower than those of other boudoir photographers?

Great question—and one I care deeply about.

I believe photography, especially boudoir, should be an empowering and affirming experience, not a high-pressure sales tactic. 

At Butterfly Winds, I do things differently. I want you to choose the images you love intentionally, not impulsively. I keep my pricing transparent and affordable so that more people can experience the beauty, joy, and confidence that comes from seeing themselves in a new light, not just those who can afford a $9,000 package.

This work is about connection, transformation, and accessibility. And yes, you’ll still get beautiful, professional images without the guilt, pressure, or credit card debt.

Where do the shoots take place?

I have a cozy, dedicated photo space set up in my home, fully equipped for portraits, headshots, and more. If you're looking for something outdoors or a specific aesthetic, I’m happy to shoot on location too. Just note that any location rental fees will be your responsibility, but I’ll help you find something beautiful within your vision and budget.

How long will the shoot take?

Most sessions run between 45 minutes to 5 hours, depending on what we’re shooting. I prefer to keep things flexible and comfortable, allowing us to take our time finding the best lighting, poses, and moments.

When will I get my photos?

You’ll receive a gallery of edited images within 3–5 weeks after your shoot. I take care in the editing process to ensure each image looks polished and aligned with the Butterfly Winds style.

Can I bring someone with me to the shoot?

Yes, with a few important boundaries. You’re welcome to bring someone who’s supportive, positive, and helps keep the mood light and fun. However, I ask that you refrain from bringing anyone who might add stress or distractions, such as individuals who try to direct the session, children who aren't part of the shoot, or anyone who might dampen your vibe. This is your time to shine!

Can I use the photos however I want?

Yes! For TFP shoots, you’re welcome to use the images for personal use, social media, and portfolios (a tag or credit is always appreciated). I may also share selected images on my site or social channels as part of my portfolio. If you have any concerns about where or how your images are used, just let me know—we can always work something out.

Boudoir Photos – Will You Share My Images?

Only with your full approval. Your comfort and trust are absolutely essential, especially with intimate sessions like boudoir. If you're not comfortable having your face—or any specific photo—shared publicly, I won’t share it. You’ll always get to review and approve any image I’d like to use in my portfolio before I share it.

All your photos are stored securely on a locally encrypted NAS system that only I have access to, so your images stay private and protected. I am working on finding a local printer that will allow me to print using their equipment, so that no one other than me ever sees your photos. I take this very seriously. This is why you would order your prints from me versus Shutterfly. I personally make sure your photos don't go anywhere that you don't want them to.